*Note: I noticed Lele’s blog entry at the old server of the-protagonist.net so i placed it here:
Haha I enjoyed reading the 15 worst holiday gift ideas. Useful advice!
3) The lingerie trap
My boyfriend passes along this lesson learned from hard experience: Never buy lingerie for a woman unless she has ripped out the page from the Victoria’s Secret catalog and circled the exact item herself. If she opens a box and sees something that looks like a black satin hanky, it just opens up a can of worms: “Why does he want me to wear that? Does he need me to look trashy? Doesn’t he like me the way I am? Next thing you know he’ll want me to wear a blond wig and fishnet stockings like a streetwalker!” You can go from surprise to Splitsville in five or six mental leaps. Way too expensive on sooooo many levels.
